Have you ever heard two people speaking in a conversation
that you found demeaning.
in the sense that you are dead and that people took your
head and said:
"I hate you"?
you have never heard this conversation before and nor should
you never  hear it spoken even behind
closed doors.
cuz people don't want you to think that when your guard will
be down they will make you sink,
in a blink of an eye they will shoot you alive and make you
bleed.