Every relationship is built on attraction. The first kind is
emotionally and the second is physically (or the other way
around?). You need both, always both. You see, relationships
are like a puzzle. Think of a 5000 piece puzzle with this
really nice art painted on it. Well, think of trying to
complete the puzzle not only starting from scratch but also
with your eyes closed. It's not that they are tied or
anything, it's actually because you are blind. The only way
you can complete the puzzle is by completing everything, but
you don't need to do that, you see, relationships are not a
game you need to complete to win. You don't have limited
time because it's not a race. All you need to do is to find
this one piece that fits in with the other, that's it, and
you are through. Unfortunately there is always a "but". In
this case the "but" is because you need to feel and go
through other pieces as well that do not fit in with this
one piece you want to put together with. Of course you can
just take one of the pieces and force it in and it will fit
in. It will fit in, just not comfortably and surely its not
her place, so don't delude yourself. Actually, worse comes
to worst, just replace the forced piece with another one.
Even after you have found the matching piece you were
looking for, it's not over, neither the puzzle nor the easy
part. Now you need to care for the matching pieces and look
after them so no one will mess them up, by mistake of
course.. It's not an easy task, this puzzle, but go with
your senses and your heart, you'll find it quiet rewarding
in the end. Satisfaction. Happiness. Love. Everything.